++Narcissists are incredibly boring people!++

-Narcissists hate anyone who establishes strong personal boundaries.

-They are very boring and repetitive people who do not possess any exciting qualities. They are without depth or true excitement. When one first meets a narcissist, they think that they are full of life and fun but it is all a mask.

-They provide good spurts of attention, good short spurts of entertainment, they tell you what you want to hear and show you what you wish to see but it is never genuine.

-Narcissists cannot actually enjoy fun activities for any length of time.

-They only pretend to have fun. Fun for the narcissist can be anything that will divert the person's attention from the narcissist. For example going to a movie is a very good way for a narcissist to appear as though they are interacting with you and doing fun things with you.

-The narcissist is aware that if you spend quiet time together, you will quickly see how boring and hollow the narcissist is. You could quickly see that there is nothing to discuss, nothing real between the two of you and nothing interesting about them.

-They have no real passions, no true interests and no goals. They have no heart, no soul and no real flame within them. In fact that is why they first targeted you because they want the energy and excitement and depth within you that they don’t have.

-They were hoping that you would bring a spark, joy and meaning into their dull gray world. They wanted you to make their lives feel alive because without someone like you they have nothing.

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These are some secrets a narcissist will never tell you:

1. You will always feel alone with me.

When you are with a narcissist, you will always feel alone—lonelier than if you were actually alone. This kind of relationship is without any real connection, without any love, without any real support; you have no one to share your feelings with. Yes, they are there physically, but you are really alone—emotionally, mentally, psychologically.

This is not a relationship, it is a one sided situational-ship. You do all the work for the relationship, and they stay only to take from you. They stay for no love or care, but for 'supply', everything is about them.

Your needs are irrelevant. Your feelings are dismissed, your voice silenced, you are made to feel you are "too much"—too needy, too clingy, too demanding. The only thing they can give you, in return, is loneliness. This is a silent treatment, stonewalling, cutting you off from family and friends, abandoning you in your need of them.

When you are alone, at least you have peace. You are not being hurt. But you hurt in every way when you are with them.

2. My personality is not real.

My personality isn't real—it's just bits and pieces that I've gotten from other people like you. I take whatever I want from people who have stuff I like about them because I think I am allowed to. I might talk like someone I just met, dress like my last partner, or pretend to enjoy your hobbies and interests as if they are mine. I could even pick the same job as you or follow the same career path as if I had an actual choice in the direction of my life.

The fact is, I am a collage of the ripped-off pieces. Without that collage of theft, I don't have a personality, I don't have an identity, there is nothing interesting about me. If you peeled back those stitches, you would find someone who is empty, boring, devoid of anything that would make for a meaningful relationship, family, or future. I don't know who I am or why I am here, I only know how to leech off the life of others and that's what I do.

Even your work is not safe. I will steal your ideas and present those ideas, phrases, images as my own because in my mind, I own you. You are not a person to me; you are an object I believe I have the right to use.

3. I secretly dislike you.

I don’t love you—I actually dislike you. I want you to think I love you more than you love me. The fact is, I keep you around strictly for a supply. I know, deep down, that I'm your greatest enemy. I want you to fail. I want you to be in pain. I feel powerful when you are in pain. I want you weak, and tired, and broken. If you have mental health breakdowns, it's just proof to me that I'm better than you.

I will belittle everything you do, I will downplay your successes, and I will make it seem like it is no big deal, "anybody could do it." Then I will dismiss the statement by justifying it as just joking or not meaning it, so you don't leave me. That said, from the bottom of my heart, I mean every hurtful and insulting thing I say to you. I know it, and I love it.

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The Raspberry Pi has been around for a while, and it seems like everyone has one. Mostly, it’s used to do the same things over and over. You set it up, maybe for a media server or something, and then it just sits there. Sometimes, you think about doing something cooler, but then you just go back to scrolling through your phone instead.

This whole idea of chasing a Raspberry Pi bottleneck is kind of... whatever. You realize it can handle a lot, but then you hit that wall where it just can’t keep up. It’s like when you try to push yourself to do something productive, but you end up just staring at the screen, waiting for something interesting to happen that never does. The whole concept of bottlenecks feels a bit like that — it can be frustrating, but also a little boring. You know there’s potential, but most of the time you just end up doing the same old things.

People talk about optimizing Raspberry Pi projects, but honestly, how many times can you listen to that? You read about the latest software updates or tweaks, and it’s just... meh. Sure, you could spend hours trying to figure out settings or configurations, but then you remember that you have other, more interesting things to do. Or, you know, maybe you don’t. Maybe you just want to sit back and let it run in the background while you find something else to occupy your time.

There’s a certain charm in the simplicity of the Raspberry Pi. It’s a small box that can do a lot, yet somehow ends up being just another gadget collecting dust. The excitement of initial setup fades pretty quickly, and then you’re just left with a device that’s capable of so much, but you can’t be bothered to exploit its full potential. The bottleneck you’re chasing is just the reality that sometimes, you don’t really feel like doing much with it at all.

In the end, it’s just a Raspberry Pi. You’ll have it, you’ll use it occasionally, but most days, it’ll just be there. Maybe you’ll tinker with it someday, or maybe you’ll just let it sit idly. Either way, it’s all kind of the same, isn’t it?

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किसी ने कभी कहा था कि तकनीक हमें आगे बढ़ाती है, लेकिन कभी-कभी ऐसा लगता है कि यह हमें पीछे भी खींच सकती है। हाल ही में मैंने "Concha Sol Hearing Aids" का इस्तेमाल किया है और सच कहूं, तो यह अनुभव बहुत उत्साहजनक नहीं था।

शुरुआत करते हैं उनके ऐप से, जो कि बहुत ही सुस्त है। जब मैंने इसे डाउनलोड किया, तो ऐसा लगा जैसे मैं किसी पुराने जमाने के फोन पर काम कर रहा हूँ। ऐप में कई सारी सुविधाएँ हैं, लेकिन उनका उपयोग करना बहुत ही थकाऊ है। एक बार तो मुझे लगा कि मेरा फोन फ्रीज़ हो गया है।

फिर बात करते हैं बैटरी की। ये हियरिंग एड्स में रिप्लेसेबल बैटरियाँ हैं। मतलब, आपको बार-बार बैटरी बदलनी पड़ेगी। अब, कौन हर बार बैटरी बदलने के लिए उत्साहित होता है? यह तो ऐसा लगता है जैसे मुझे उनके साथ एक नया काम सौंप दिया गया हो।

हालांकि, साउंड क्वालिटी ठीक है। अगर आपको अच्छे साउंड की जरूरत है, तो ये हियरिंग एड्स उस मामले में निराश नहीं करते। लेकिन क्या साउंड क्वालिटी ही सब कुछ है? जब बाकी चीज़ें इतनी बोरिंग और थकाऊ हों, तो क्या यह सच में मायने रखता है?

कुल मिलाकर, "Concha Sol Hearing Aids" एक कठिन बिकवाली हैं। उनके साथ आने वाले फीचर्स तो ठीक हैं, लेकिन उपयोग करने की प्रक्रिया ऐसी है कि मन करता है बस इन्हें एक कोने में रख दूं और कभी-कभी ही इस्तेमाल करूं।

यह हियरिंग एड्स एक तरह से पुराने जमाने की याद दिलाते हैं। क्या हमें आगे की सोचने की ज़रूरत नहीं है? क्या हम कुछ बेहतर की उम्मीद नहीं कर सकते? शायद मैं ही गलत हूँ, लेकिन मुझे तो इस चीज़ में कोई खास दिलचस्पी नहीं दिखती।

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